Parents play the biggest role in anyone’s development. Father and Mother are the keys to our mental, physical, social, financial, and career development. Parents specially “Father – A Forgotten Parent” are the most precious gift of God for us. They help us in every step of our life, they love us for a comfortable lifestyle and they trained us with hardstyle for future challenges.
GOD creates parents because he cannot be everywhere.
The word ‘Parent’ is a combination of ‘Father’ and ‘Mother’. But in general, people refer quote mentioned above as for the Mother only. Surprisingly, people forgot the Father’s love, care, sacrifice, affection, and support very easily. Being a woman and a mother of two kids, I have full regard for the Mother’s sacrifices and affection for the family, but I feel it is injustice towards Father, who plays an equally important role in anyone’s life.
Father – A Forgotten Parent, is the very first male person in any child’s life, who suppose to be perfect, to be strong, to be persistent, be the bread-earner overall to be the Super-Hero.
Father, like a mother, is a pillar in the development of a child’s emotional well-being. Kids also look to their fathers to provide a feeling of security, both physical and emotional. In their eye, Father is capable of doing everything. Being a girl child, I shared a very special bond with my Father. Like others, I also have grown by admiring my Father. I cherished my lots of memories like how he taught me, how he pampered me, how he played with me, and how he saved me and my sister from my Mother’s temper.
He made us feels confident in ourselves. He always supported us in our childhood, he made us stand on our legs, and he never discouraged us because of our gender. He may not give the world’s best doll, may not give branded clothes, but he gave the BEST Gift, any girl expected from his Father, was his TIME.
But unfortunately, my dad passed away after my marriage, I was so shattered at that time because my support, my helper, my savior, my adviser, and my pillar has gone. I was worried that from now onward who will be there to solve my problems, advise me on small and tiny matters, to support me in my bad phase, and so on. But you know, after spending 11 years without him, I found that I need no one else for all this. My Father is still with me. Whenever I required his help, suggestion, or advice, he gave me through his soul. Whenever trouble surrounds me, I got my strength and courage by just the sight of his Photo.
I must say that Fathers play a very important role in anyone’s life. Fathers do have a special and unique place in anyone’s life but generally didn’t get due credit. So, I wanted to appeal through my blog that Shows your love towards your Father just like you showed towards your Mather. Respect him as equal as your Mother. Show your true feelings to your Father before it will be too late.
So gift your father, your caretaker, your life supporter with a box of good health.
He deserves an equal share of your love, care, and respect. If I have one chance to have him here today, I would tell you how much you mean to me, I would do things differently, I would have held you, hug you … But the only thing that gave me peace was that There is an Angel in the sky along with GOD watching over me, protecting me, rains love and affection from the sky.